Feeling down? Read this!

I’m not perfect. I never will be. But ya know what? I don’t want to be.

I love who I am. Sure, I say stupid things, I make mistakes, I have my flaws, but that’s what makes me, me. That’s who I am and I’m not going to change for anyone. Take it, or leave it.

Advice.      

Hey, so if you ever need someone to talk to, or need someone to listen, or anything, I’m always here. I will  be more than happy to listen to you, to help you, to give you advice, or just simply let you vent. You can always trust me, and I won’t post anything unless you say it’s all right. If it’s off anon, I will keep it private. I will make you that promise. I promise nothing will go out if you don’t want it to. Just know that you aren’t alone and that I’m always here for you no matter what, or when. I want to help you, so don’t ever hesitate when you need someone. I will ALWAYS help you.<3 Forever and always<3

I’m not changing for anyone. I am who I am for a reason. No guy is going to make me change. They’ll have to love me for me, all my flaws and all my quirks. I shouldn’t have to change for someone to enjoy being around me. I want someone who loves me because of me and not because they want me to be who they want. I should be able to live my life not questioning whether or not they are going to accept my crazy moments, my tears, my loud outburts, everything. Sorry, but if you want part of me, you have to take all of me.

Advice.

Hi, so I just wanted to remind y’all that if any of you ever need someone to talk to, someone to help guide you along, someone to cheer you up, someone to listen, I’m always here, and I will ALWAYS help you. No matter what I’m doing, no matter my mood, no matter what! I will always be here to put a smile on your face, to give you advice, to make you laugh, to listen, for anything, about anything, or even about anyone. I just want you to know that you can fully trust me 100%. If you post something off anon, I will respond privately. Nothing you don’t want posted won’t be posted. I wouldn’t do that to anyone. So, please remember, you aren’t alone and I’m always here.<3

Today’s self-harm awareness day. March 1st.

Hi, my name is Jessica, and I want you to know that if you ever need someone to talk to, I’m alway here for you to talk to. Anything you tell me will stay between you and me. I will promise you that. You aren’t alone and I want to help. So please don’t hesitate to come talk to me. I promise you everything you tell me is safe with me. You’re beautiful and you deserve to be happy.(:

Believe me when I say…

You’re beautiful, that you mean the world to me, that you’re amazing. Believe me when I say people care about you. Believe me when I say I care. Because honestly, I do care. I care more than you realize. If you don’t believe me fine, but I will constantly tell you. You are beautiful and you do mean a lot to me. Please don’t make a permanent decision based on a temporary feeling. Life does get better, you just have to wait for the right moment. I am here for you, and I always will be. Don’t ever think that I won’t be. I will always be here for you, and every other person that might need help in this crazy mixed up world. You are perfect.

Yeah, life gets rough sometimes, but that doesn’t mean you should do something drastic. Please just take a deep breath and take a seat and breathe some more. I am only trying to help. You deserve to smile, you deserve to be happy. That may be easier said than done, but the first step to accomplishing this is to be positive. Positivity will always make you smile even when you don’t want to. You have to just try. You have to accept that you can get better. Please don’t do anything you know you won’t mean.

This might just seem like I’m just a girl saying these things to make you feel better, but no. I mean every single word in this post. I honestly and genuinely mean it all. Every single word. Go ahead and say you don’t believe me, but that doesn’t change how i feel. I’m just trying to help, and even if you tell me to stop, I won’t because I can’t stand the fact that so many people are upset and unhappy in this world. I know I might get torn up because of how I feel, but that won’t change anything.

Please just believe me.

<3

If you,

know someone who is thinking about suicide, or is unhappy, or is whatever emotion, I will be more than happy to send them a letter. And to prove that I actually wrote it, I will hand write it and send it to you. Please, I will do anything to help. Please.

Suicide..

Is not a joke. This is real life. You shouldn’t joke about a topic so sensitive as death, especially death on purpose. Yeah, some people get upset, and they say things, but if you’re really going to push them to a point where they can no longer take it, then that’s just sick. Every human being on this Earth deserves to live. They deserve to be happy and no one should be bullying them because they aren’t.

Now let me tell you a story.

One of my really close friends growing up, starting cutting himself. It got really bad, he would go to the hospital and recover, then they would let him out. But then he would do it again. He would go back to the hospital and it got so bad a couple of times he would go to an institute to get help. He even ran away a couple of times. These cuts on his arms, weren’t just little slits, they were deep cuts, way far down. Now this boy, he was a really close friend of mine. I could tell him anything. Then our mom’s got into an argument and I haven’t heard from him in a couple of years. He meant the world to me. I would have done anything for him. I don’t even know if he’s alive right now, and just thinking about it breaks my heart.

Here’s another story.

One of my really close friends started cutting herself too. She wasn’t as bad as my guy friend, but still. She felt enough sadness in her life to make her want to cut herself. I’m assuming she got help, because as far as I know, she doesn’t do it anymore, and she is alive and healthy.

Everyone is beautiful. I cannot stress this enough. If you ever feel that you can’t hang on, or that you don’t want to live, please, please, please, come talk to me. I will try to help. You mean a lot to me, and I know you are strong enough to stay alive. Please, don’t hesitate. You don’t understand whose life you are affecting.

<3

I just have to say..

There’s a “The person I reblogged this from is beautiful” post going around. I just want to say that every single person within this world is absolutely stunning. Every single person deserves to be told they are beautiful and that they should be happy. I truly and honestly believe that everyone is gorgeous and anyone who wants to say otherwise doesn’t know what they are talking about. I hate scrolling through my dash and seeing asks that say, “you’re ugly” “why are you even posting pictures” “Get out of here” and so forth. These types of posts break my heart every single time. I can’t stand seeing someone putting up a strong reply, because I know they are sitting behind their computer screen with tears in their eyes because someone was insecure of themselves. It brings tears to my eyes when I see hate on here. Please, do me a favor and don’t spread hate around. It doesn’t make you the bigger person. It just makes you look dumb. If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all. There’s no point in tearing someone else down because you don’t like the way something is going on. Just don’t put anyone through that. If you don’t believe me, let me know, and I will write you a post saying how beautiful you really are. If you are reading this, then you are beautiful and you are important to me, and you do deserve to be on this planet. Please, I know life gets hard sometimes, but you deserve to be here and I hope you know that anything you could possibly do or say can’t change that statement. If you are feeling down, or you need some advice, please, I’d be more than happy to help you. If you don’t know what to do, please don’t be afraid to talk to me. I will always help you. No matter what.

I just want to say,

That I know what it feels like to be in a tough situation. I’m not going to explain it, but if you ask me about it I’ll be happy to tell. But I just want all of my beautiful followers to know that if you are ever feeling down, or upset, or you EVER need someone to talk to, my ask box is always open. I won’t judge you, I won’t be rude, and I most certainly won’t ignore you. It might take me longer to answer, because I might be on a place where I can’t answer privately. If you don’t want me to post something, I won’t. But please, if you ever, ever, ever, need someone to talk to, I am always here. I will do my best to help you with whatever situation you are in, or I will just be here to listen if you need to vent. Please don’t be shy and please don’t hesitate to come talk to me. I am here for each and every single one of you. Please, don’t do something permanent to a temporary feeling. <3

Honestly,

every single person on this planet is beautiful. I’m sick of seeing all of these posts about how people don’t think they are good enough. You are all beautiful, even if someone once said you weren’t. Please, take it from me. I believe everyone is beautiful no matter what. It breaks my heart to see all of these young boys and girls who want to take their lives or that they have self harmed. There are alternates to everything. I’m always here for each and every one of you if you ever need it. Please don’t hesitate to talk to  me<3

Honestly,

What really is the point of calling people names. Honestly, you’re just being a bully and tearing someone apart. You’re tearing someone who hasn’t done anything wrong apart. Calling someone fat, or ugly doesn’t mean the person really is. Everyone is beautiful and no one should tell them otherwise. I hate seeing someone being told they are ugly. I may not have been in the situation myself, but I know people who have and it tears me apart to see them miserable. If anyone ever feels upset over any situation, please don’t be shy to talk to me. I will always be supportive and positive and I will try to make you feel better. Everyone deserves to be happy and everyone deserves to have a smile on their face. Don’t tear others down. It doesn’t make you a good person.

Hello followers,

If you ever need anything, anything at all, please don’t be shy to talk to me. I promise you I won’t judge you, I won’t be rude, I won’t hurt you. I just want to help you. I don’t want any of you to feel alone in this crazy, mixed up world. Please, don’t hesitate to talk to me. I promise to try to cheer you up whenever you need it. I just want everyone to know they are beautiful and they should always have a reason to smile. Please. Don’t be shy. I love every single one of you. <3

If any of you lovely followers ever need someone to cheer you up, or need someone to talk to, I’m always here. My ask box is always open. Please don’t be shy. I just want to help!!

If you’re ever feeling sad,
Come to me,
I’ll put that smile on your face,
Right where it belongs.
Forever and always.

Don’t let people get you down.
You mean more to me than they do to you.
So let them rant away,
And know that I’m here to stay.

No matter what the situation is,
I’ll cheer you up.
You don’t have to know me,
‘cuz sometimes it means more than the people you know.
So don’t be shy.

I’m here for you, and you and everyone.

Dear followers,

If you are ever feeling down, lonely, upset or whatever other emotion you may be feeling, just know that you aren’t alone. Please, come talk to me, anon or not. Whatever you are comfortable with. You don’t have to be alone in this crazy world. You are all beautiful just the way you are as well. Please take the time to think about my offer here. You deserve to smile and you DESERVE a place in this world.

Love always, Jessica.

Please.

I know life can be hard and I know people live in different situations, but I just hope everyone knows that they aren’t alone. This world is huge and its crazy. I hope when people wake up in the morning they realize there is someone to talk to. If anyone ever needs someone to talk to, I’m always here. My ask box is always open. Please don’t go through life all bottled up. It isn’t healthy. Please, with any situation, I’m always here. For every single one of my followers!!

People with scars.

I was scrolling through here and I saw a post by a beautiful young girl. She questioned, “who would date a girl with scars?” Honestly, who wouldn’t date a girl or a guy with scars? Those scars mean that you’ve been to hell and back and you’re still here fighting and living. Most people look at those scars and get scared and run the opposite direction. A girl or guy who has scars on their body deserves respect. No one knows the reason as to why they cut in the first place, so there shouldn’t be any judgement. Everyone lives a hard battle, so don’t judge someone by what you see. Who knows, they’re story might open your eyes and inspire you to do something you’d never think of in the first place. 

Most people think that it’s just girls who are cutting, but that is far from true. Guys cut as well. You should date someone because you like them for them, not because of the scars on their body. Those scares are who they are. Now that it’s done, you can’t change it. So, respect the girl or guy for getting this for and learn to look beyond the appearance. Who knows, you might surprise yourself and others!<3

Beauty

Beauty isn’t always a picture, a face, a body. Being “beautiful” isn’t about the flawless face, the makeup, the pearly white teeth, the long legs, the long hair, the jet straight hair, the beach waves, the perfect curl, the best manicure. It’s whats inside and you are beautiful both inside and out. I don’t have to see a picture to know that. Being beautiful on the outside isn’t a bad thing, but it is a bad thing to be selfish and rude and insulting on the inside. Having a crappy personality but having a flawless outside isn’t going to get you anywhere. You need both, or should at least try for both. Beauty is both inside and out. Pictures are just what one wants to be, how they want to look, but that doesn’t mean that reflects what’s on the inside. 

Priority

I make it a priority to make sure that everyone around me is okay. I make it a priority to make sure that everyone is at least trying to be happy. I don’t have to know you. I don’t have to have met you, I will still make it a priority to make sure that you are okay. A lot of people don’t have someone in their lives to make sure they’re okay and I want to be the person that will be there to make sure you’re okay. I will always be there for you. I may just be a girl on the internet, but I will do my very best to comfort you, or to listen to you, or help you. I will always be here.